I think when it comes to divorce, the position everyone is looking for is just trust. So much is lost and so much is forsaken that unless someone takes control, understands the loss and actually feels your pain, they can not be of real help. In this, Cliff through all my tears has made me understand he will only do as I want, only take steps that are right for not only me but whats best for all parties. This may sound strange in a divorce but in the end, the lives of both parties need not be destroyed. He does what is right, he leads by example and he is a real defender of a long term solution for all sides. I put my faith in Cliff from the second he spoke to me. Confident, not cocky, stern but without ignorance, honest as if you were his own family. —Tom